I work very hard and am attending college to obtain my degree in the Human Service field. Writing makes me feel alive and gives me the opportunity to touch those whom I would not be able to otherwise. Last but not least, I have been blessed with two amazing daughters who love me completely and support my dreams. Feel free to contact me with questions, concerns or feedback.
I've been thinking about my life the past couple of weeks, decade maybe. What has happened within the last two years is not what was planned. A tattoo which reads, "I am not afraid of life or death, nor the inbetween... the journey itself cannot be planned, lies in the unforeseen", graces my forearm. Thoughts of what might have been, what was and the yearing for something more floats about. I have now accepted my blessings and have come to more than one conclusion. It is time to let go, embrace what is and move towards an amazing journey into whatever the future brings.
In discussing relationships with friends and such, I have embraced my own philosophy. The way to judge a good relationship is to gauge how you feel when you are apart from one another. A healthy relationship brings about peace, understanding and acceptance. The other brings about uncertainty, questions about the true intentions of another and a guessing of your status within. Let me give you a few examples.
I've taken some time to ponder what it takes for individuals to be truly at peace with their decisions regarding dating, relationships and everything in between. A great majority of us will find love, or at least like, a couple of times in our lives. I can honestly say I've fallen in love a handful of times and have felt that instant connection. It doesn't happen often but when it does, life is different.