I work very hard and am attending college to obtain my degree in the Human Service field. Writing makes me feel alive and gives me the opportunity to touch those whom I would not be able to otherwise. Last but not least, I have been blessed with two amazing daughters who love me completely and support my dreams. Feel free to contact me with questions, concerns or feedback.
Because I promise, I deliver. I recently asked a guy, someone I refer to as "Player" a series of questions. These questions are on the minds of most women. Inquiring minds want to know, "What's up with cheating? What do men really want in the bedroom?"
The answers I have received throughout my Q&A session shocked me, others found my endearing side. I was touched by his honesty and depth. This "interview" gave me the opportunity to look at men in a completely new light. I have also been awakened in so many areas regarding relationships in general.
Once again, I ask that you keep an open mind. You may or may not agree with the questions and/or answers. You may agree with one or all. Either way, this is just a little insight from one guy, brave enough to tell it like it is.
Questions, once again, from the mouth of Babe.
Babe: What percentages of men cheat?
Player: That depends on the percentage of men who have felt safe enough to cheat and not get caught. If you have ten guys who felt safe enough to cheat and offered them someone they find attractive, 70-90% would cheat.
Babe: If you had an opportunity to cheat, would you?
Player: Refer to last question and the answer provided.
Babe: If you were in love and cheated throughout the relationship, did that mean you were less in love with your sig other?
Player: No, not for everyone. I think it depends on the reasons why men and women cheat. There’s countless reasons.
Me: What is the greatest turn on for men in the bedroom?
Player: a woman who really enjoys acting like a sex starved animal, not one that does it because it pleases him. You can’t fake the enjoyment in a woman’s eyes when she’s really into oral or when she’s in different positions. It it’s a task, then what’s the point? Don’t do something because it makes me happy, do it because you love the way it feels, the way it tastes, the way it fills you up. Do it because it turns you on, gets your juices flowing and makes you beg for me to be inside of you. The greatest turn on is a woman who is completely unafraid to be an animal in bed.
Me: How is sex different when you’re in love?
Player: It's not. Sex is either good or bad. 'love' doesn't make it better. For some guys, love can ruin sex. Some guys think if your in bed with someone you love, you can't act like porn stars and sex starts to suck.
NEXT WEEK: THE GRAND FINALE.... LOVE!